Dear Frank..... by Diane Ogden

"This is Frank"
Dear Frank....

Do you ever find getting into someone else's head slash energies slash thoughts is detrimental to your health and well being. Notice the detri- slash -mental...humm. Or, Dear Frank do you find it a good idea that it helps determine where you stand even with yourself if you get into why someone is treating you in such a way that is confusing. Confusing? Let me help you understand. If someone gives you a gift and it is truly a gift you know their energy is good and their thoughts are kind. End of issue. But on the other hand, and I know how you dislike the word but, Frank, but, as I began to say....if someone gives you or me a gift and you notice oddities regarding their personality and energies toward you, which indeed includes words and attitudes, do you climb into their head? I would say no.. but...(there it is again Frank) when you are awakening in the early morning and the thought comes to you in the form of an answer that you didn't chase after....wouldn't you then allow it and follow its leading? I did Frank.....ya know what I found out? That the gift wasn't really a true gift. It is a gift which (witch oops) that person didn't truly want to give and wishes she hadn't. Therefore the attitude and the expectation of a return from me to her in the form of payment is a requirement she is trying to hide. I got it Frank. Do you get it?That is what is inside her head and "coming at me." I was so dumb Frank... Here I thought it to be a miracle...

Guess it was for me. Poor dear, I should pray she gets her energies fixed "back" toward the good side. Thanks for your time Frank... I love our little talks.

p.s. Frank is my friend and mentor who I call Frank because sometimes she is very 'frank' with me. Love my puns, or was that really one? She calls me Fern when I do stupid thoughtless things as I do her...like the time she got in the shower with her bra on..... or the time she put her large ferns on top of their little broken "old" triumph (car hello) in the garage, then proceeded to push the car outside with ferns atop to get them some Sun.. That is where the name Fern originated. Now you know Frank and Fern... they are quite a pair....